I was always been a big fan of a Blog called Dreams of Patroclus. This Blog has been inactive for a longtime. I keep it on my Blogroll, because I hope that he may eventually return. I would imagine that his career made Blogging more and more difficult. You all should check him out. He is a true southern gentlemen.
Patroclus in Greek mythology was the mythical comrade, brother-in-arms and lover of Achilles. Their relationship was said to have inspired Alexander the Great in his alleged romantic relationship with his companion Hephaestion. Patroclus died on the fields of war outside the walls of Troy. The relationship between Patroclus and Achilles is held up as a model of romantic love.
One of many things I have learned from Dreams of Patroclus is the benefit of having a personal "calling card" or trick card as I call it. Mine has my first name, cell phone number and a rather anon email address. This allows whoever I give the card to the ability to casually contact me while protecting my identity and private information.
I won't boast about how many times my trick card has gotten me laid. When there is a connection and time permits, I press one of the cards into the hand of whoever has crossed my path. Sometimes months go by and I get a casual message that leads to a rewarding experience. Thank you Dreams of Patroclus!
Why am I posting this you might ask? I got wildly luck again this evening and got a blowjob in my living room from I-Got-Wildly-Lucky-Last-Night. He had my card from last Fall.
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