Thursday, November 26, 2009

Thanksgiving, cherryboi, the Marine - and a date

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!! I am making pasta salad and a desert for a group dinner at "Dan" and "Howard"'s place with friends this evening. Things are good!

With all the news about the military and debating about whether the President will send even more troops to Afghanistan, my thoughts have been with the the Marine. He is still deployed in Afghanistan. I won't get any more specific. It appears that he will be there for a while. Our conversations are always generic, but we IM and exchange e-mails a lot. I have gone high tech enough to have Yahoo! messenger on my phone, so we IM at the strangest times. I think he's scared and bored. He is too macho to admit the scared descriptor, but I can feel it and totally understand. I am moved by the sacrifices these men and women make for us. Having said that, he promises me that he is living his dream. He wants to be and is a Marine!

I put together two big care packages that I mailed out to Afghanistan on Monday. I must have made quite a sight lugging these two big boxes from the Metro to the Union Station Post Office. It was stuff that the Marine said that he an his buddy's could use. I also threw all of the books that I had around the house into the boxes along with some sweets and everything else I could think. It made me feel good to do it. I am thankful for them. I think we all can agree that we hate war, I just want all of them to come home safe someday soon. I'd also luv to fuck the Marine again soon and can't tell him.

cherryboi left a box with a note on my backstep some time between Friday and Sunday last week. I found it last Sunday afternoon. I had not planned to ever mention him again in this blog, but the note changed my mind. The box contained an old sweatshirt, some clothes and about everything I had ever given him during our relationship. It also contained the book - The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure that I once mentioned in this blog. I will be honest. I actually cried. It appears that cherryboi has quit his job and moved back home. He wants to try to live a straight lifestyle. I gather from the note that he has surrendered to family pressure and fear to come out to his Mother and Father. I am sad, but at a loss to do anything constructive about it.

I had a date last night. Not really much to tell. We planned to have drinks and that turned into dinner at his suggestion. It was nice and I thought I'd mention it. I am not sure it if will go anywhere.

Finally, D just text messaged me: "I am so horny! Please come fuck me!" I will soon:)

9 comments:

Robbie said...

Even though I told you to break up with Cherryboi before, I'm still glad that you wrote about CB again.

Back to straight life again? Sigh*

Anyway I'm quite sure Cherryboi will cherish the happy moments that had been with you forever. So will you.
Thanks for your quick update.

borg_queen said...

lol when I read the title I thought you had a Thanksgiving dinner with both the Marine and CB.

This is sad, though. It will fuck up not only CB but also whomever is unfortunate enough to be his girlfriend or worse, wife. Or even 'worser', his would be kids. He can look forward a very unhappy and unfulfillingly conflicted life.

It's also sad for the Marine. He has to put his life on the line fighting a fraudulent war with a phantom CIA-trained enemy. And the worse thing about it is he has no idea about it.

Thirty3 Naked Laydies said...

Bless you for sending that care package. Says a lot about you and where your values lie.

The end of relationship are always hard. Finding 'items' that define such relations on ones backdoor step is > not easy either. For either party. But in time, the soreness heals.

Cherryboi's sexual identity will remain a struggle for him. In his own time, he'll figure and sort it out. The Coming Out process is length... and always a journey. But until HE becomes comfortable with who HE is, HE will forever remain, tormented. Happy Thanksgiving.

Chicago Fella said...

Something tells me that as much as cherryboi likes your cum in his butt, he's not going to stay straight for long.

He's young. He has plenty of time to work things out and be sane by the time he hits 30. His family is a pain in the ass. He'll realize that.

Anonymous said...

Gosh, it's one thing if cherryboi left you because he somehow figured out you were screwing around behind his back-- and more power to him-- but if the reason why he "needed to break up with you for a while" is because he decided he was going to "go straight" then that's just sad. In that case I guess it's nice that D is around to help with the healing process.

Tyler said...

Hey DC-T have you had any contact with Cherryboi since he left? I have been following you for quite sometime and I really liked how you shared with us your sex with Cherryboi and the obvious growing attachment (love, fondness, whatever you want to call it). Anything at all from him or a cold, clean break?

Anonymous said...

I think everyone is being really hard on CB. Perhaps he just realized that the unfaithfulness of the relationship and the promiscuity of the gay community is not what's best for his life. Maybe he is a straight guy who was confused and enjoyed gay sex awhile, but realized that he was meant for more. I'm sure many a gay guy has had straight sex and enjoyed it before realizing it wasn't "who they were".

Give CB a break. He is better off.

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